Sunday, April 26, 2009
Question
The funeral for the patient that I previously wrote about was yesterday (Saturday). I didn't go because I worked the night before and I worked last night as well. I'm not sure I would have gone if I didn't work. I'm not sure how I feel about that. I was mentioned by name in the program, which makes me feel even worse that I didn't go. Should I have gone?
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2 comments:
That's a tough one. I don't think it's a case of being right or wrong for not going to the funeral. It is totally up to you and your comfort level. Obviously, this patient and the patient's family touched you deeply and in a different way than other patients. And you meant something to them as well. But I think they would understand that not every nurse would be able to make it to the funeral. Maybe you could send the family a sympathy card and write some nice things - a way to mark the occasion for both parties?
I think that the important thing is that when you've had a special patient or family, you can acknowledge them in the way that is the most sincere for you. Knowing you, that doesn't necessarily mean going to a funeral.
I love Kristin's comment. As a wishgranter for MAW I have only gone to ONE child's funeral. It was only because I really liked this family and felt it was appropriate. When Lauren was baptized she asked her favorite nurse to come and say the prayer. I am sure she wasn't excited about doing this but it meant the WORLD to Lauren. Obviously different than a funeral but also important to the family.
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